Do you feel misunderstood? Do you wonder what life would be like if only people understood who you really are? If yes, let me tell you this: Life would be Boring with a capital ‘b.’

A reality in life is that if we were all completely understandable, we wouldn’t be that attractive to anyone nor would any of us want to spend much time trying to figure each other out. Much of our individual attraction lies in the fact that we’re each largely incomprehensible to others.

Little things are comprehensible. Big events —and you are a very big event — are rarely understood. Rather, it’s more likely said: ‘There’s no explaining her or him or it.”

The compelling nature of our personalities lies in our incomprehensibility. Nobody fully understands another, nor oneself. Don’t worry about it. Instead, view this as a never ending opportunity for self exploration and reinvigoration of our most important relationships. 

I’m @DianGriesel aka a perception analyst & strategist; creative attitude disrupter & adjuster; author of The Silver Disobedience Playbook & TurboCharged: The Silver Disobedience Edition; and the blogger & model known as @SilverDisobedience  More info on my websites (search my name) and at Wilhelmina Models. Silver Disobedience® is a Registered Trademark.